Friday 25 November 2011

Baby Steps.





Lily has taken her first steps, 5 days before she turned 10 months.  We'd moved into Grandma's house the day before and Lily quickly made huge leaps toward walking. She went from holding herself up on the wall to walking along the wall to rounding the corner until she spotted... the remote. She took four steady steps from a chair to the coffee table where the remote was. Over the next few days she took more and more steps, now 10 days in, she's up to 25 steps at a time. She can easily walk beside you while holding your hand which is so much fun that we do laps around the house all day. Her toys have been cast aside and her only focus is on walking. She is sure making huge progress and quickly. I am so proud of her but a small part of me is sad that my baby is growing so fast. Time flies when you're having fun.

To Grandma's house we go.




Sorry I've been missing in action, we've been moved out of our house for renovations until January and we are couch surfing with the grandparents. First we are at Dan's mom's house and then a month at my parents house, it has been hard being out of our routine and without all of our stuff but it has surprisingly been a blessing in disguise. We moved into Grandma's house on the 14th of November and on the 15th Lily took her first steps! She's had a blast playing with all grandma's "toys", taking the books off the shelves, throwing the newspapers around, taking all the cutlery out of the dishwasher and taking the toilet paper off the rolls in the bathroom. Grandma has loved every step of the way and so have we, it has been such a fun adventure. Lily and grandma have become so close and have their own daily rituals of walking the halls, hearing their voices echo in the stairwell and getting the mail. It's been really lovely to see Lily's face light up when her grandma walks into the room. Onto the next adventure of a month at my parents over the holidays. I'm excited for crafting, knitting and baking and of course spending quality time with my parents and seeing them compete for Lily's first word "Nana", no, "Papa", no "Nana"... you get the picture.

Friday 11 November 2011

Books I recommend for Pregnancy, Labour and Parenting

Books: Pregnancy, Labour and Parenting

This is what is on my pregnancy, labour and parenting bookshelf. There are so many books out there that talk about all of the aspects of parenting and it is so hard to choose which ones to read. Generally what I like to do is find someone who's parenting style is similar to my own and ask them what they recommend. It can be really difficult to research parenting techniques and suggestions because so many books contradict each other, "do this but DON'T do that". I really think this turns people off from reading books on parenting all together and they end up going with the "go with the flow, follow my instincts" approach. Don't get me wrong, I think this approach is great but sometimes, you might come across something that you never thought of doing. I think research and opinions from other parents, doctors, and enthusiasts can be really helpful and by reading about the opinions, you can pick and choose which pieces of advice you want to put into practice in your own family. I also think reading a range of books from a lot of different sources with different sets of opinions can be really helpful. I know it seems like there is really no time to read when you are a new parent and this is how I would approach it: try to read and think about what parenting style and opinions you believe in BEFORE your baby comes. Pregnancy is a great time to research how you want your labour to be, what is your opinion on vaccines, what education would you like your child to have, what infant and child development activities can you do, how to help your baby sleep, and what traditions you want to start as a family. I know it seems overwhelming but you are going to want an opinion on this stuff, and if you can stay one step ahead you will be better off. If not, don't worry about it, just learn as you go. Leave your baby with it's dad, uncle, grand parents etc. and go to a coffee shop for an hour to read and relax. Books that are still unread on my bookshelf? Unconditional Parenting, I've heard this is a fantastic book and the ideas sound like they align really well with my parenting values, I can't wait to read it. Playful Parenting, Raising Our Children, Raising Ourselves, The Absorbant Mind - my brother read this and said it is fascinating. Also, any woman (or man for that matter) should read Taking Charge of your Fertility, it has information about your body that everyone should know! What are your go-to parenting books?


Monday 7 November 2011

Thrifty Mom Weekend Uniform

Mom Weekend Uniform


I absolutely love thrift store shopping, it feels like treasure hunting. It also fits with my "consume less, reuse more" values. You can pick up some really great items for cheap. Honestly though, I think I would try and buy used clothing even if it was the same price. Here are the pros: you are far more likely to find unique items, you feel like you won the jackpot when you find something you love, you are saving money and you are buying clothing that have already been purchased new; therefore reducing the overall effect of consumerism. I love to buy made in North America, ethically sourced (hemp, organic cotton, recycled materials etc.) clothing but honestly, it is bloody expensive and hard to find a large variety. If I buy used, I feel like I can buy whatever I want because I'm not buying it new. Here's what I am wearing out for a walk on a cold fall day: Frye "Veronica Slouch" boots (these are not thrifted but purchase about 4 years ago), Hue tights, Smart wool socks, my husbands old jeans cut into shorts, a Laura by Topshop thrifted top ($8.50), a Banana Republic merino wool cardigan, thrifted ($29), a Gap olive green jacket, thrifted ($16.50) and lastly a super old Zara scarf.


Style Inspiration: Winter Baby Outfit

Winter Baby Outfit


RRL Wool Cowichan Sweater Vest
$395 - ralphlauren.com

Girls 2-6X Wool-Cashmere Earflap Hat
$70 - ralphlauren.com

UGG Australia Infant'S Boo Bootie
$50 - saksfifthavenue.com

Old Navy Ribknit Cardigans For Baby
$15 - oldnavy.gap.com

Cable Knit Tights
$13 - Zara.com
Lily's Version


Most everything I buy is thrifted, both for myself and for Lily so it is hard to share "exactly" the items she is wearing. This is what she wore for a Sunday winter family walk (and stop at a coffee shop - as usual). This entire outfit cost approximately $15 (and the cowichan vest was $12!). I highly recommend shopping at consignment or thrift stores, especially for babies because they wear the items for such a short amount of time, you can find a great deal on some items in great condition. 

Saturday 5 November 2011

Pumpkin Party

homemade candy apples

spooky goat cheese



apple cider

family pumpkins

Lily's garden gnome costume


my gentleman costume
My (great) friend Elaina had a Martha-esque pumpkin party which was perfect for our little family, considering nights aren't really the main "party" time anymore. We ate kettle corn, smoky yam and garlic soup, candy apples, candy corn, spooky looking goat cheese and drank orange soda and hot apple cider. We all brought a pumpkin (or three) to carve and Elaina supplied all the tools. It was the epitome of Halloween to me and probably the best Halloween I've ever had. Lily dressed up as a garden gnome equipped with a super cute apron that her Nana made her and a gnome hat which her mom (thats me!) hot glued. Who knew it was so easy to handmake a Halloween costume! I happened to have a mustache on a stick (what?!) so I went as a gentleman. On halloween night we handed out candy to cute little kids (penguins and robots and pink princesses!)  which I had never done before and it was super fun! We had about fifty kids come to the door, I was tempted to give them healthy treats but I decided I didn't want to be known as "that" mom, so we handed out mini chocolate bars. Halloween with kids makes it ten times more fun. Hoping for twenty times more fun next year!



Tuesday 1 November 2011

Pumpkin Pie from Scratch.

happy b-day my friend!

mmm.. perfect consistency.

there wasn't much left by the time I got to photograph it.

I completed one of my fall intentions. I made pumpkin pie from scratch and it wasn't that hard! It was my dear friend Elaina's birthday and we had a lovely dinner together and for dessert, a homemade from scratch pumpkin pie. I used the Joy of Baking recipe for this, but I think most recipes are very similar so any will do. We purchased our pumpkin pie pumpkin, a bit sweeter than a regular pumpkin, at our local farmers market. It didn't take long to make and it was super delicious. I think I might get a few more pumpkins to puree and freeze so I can have pumpkin pie from scratch all year!